What Do You Really Want?
- Heidi Schmitz Colombo
- Mar 26
- 3 min read
Introduction
Have you ever paused to ask yourself, "What do I really want?" It's a simple question that can evoke complex emotions and deep introspection. In a world where we are often pulled in multiple directions by societal expectations and personal pressures, understanding our true desires is essential for living a fulfilling life.
The Significance of the Question
Our thoughts are things, and the clearer we are about what we want, the more likely we are to achieve it. This isn't about simple materialistic desires; it's about aligning your thoughts with your deepest values and purposes. "If you see it in your mind, you will hold it in your hand." This profound connection between thought and manifestation highlights the importance of knowing and visualizing what you truly want.
Self-Discovery Tools
Discovering what you truly want can be a journey of self-discovery. Here are a few tools to help you delve deeper:
Journaling: Writing down your thoughts can clarify your feelings and desires. Start by jotting down answers to prompts such as "What would I do if I knew I could not fail?" or "What am I most passionate about?"
Meditation: Spend time in quiet reflection to listen to your inner voice. Meditation can help silence the noise of the world and connect you with your true self.
Vision Boards: Create a visual representation of your goals and dreams. Seeing these daily can help keep your true desires at the forefront of your mind.
Affirmations: Positive, present-tense statements that reinforce your goals and the reality you wish to create. Repeat these daily to embed them in your subconscious.
The Five-Second Rule: Whenever a goal or aspiration comes to mind, take immediate action within five seconds to maintain the momentum and turn your thoughts into results.
Overcoming Obstacles
Understanding what you want is one thing; pursuing it is another. Many face barriers such as fear of failure or the expectations of others. It's important to recognize these fears but not let them dictate your life's path. Techniques like positive affirmations and setting small, manageable goals can help build confidence and momentum.
Part of the process is also overcoming paradigms—existing beliefs and images that reside in the subconscious mind. These often act as barriers to achieving what we really want. By changing these paradigms through constant affirmation and belief in the possibility of achievement, we align our frequency with our desires. A great quote by Bob Proctor that comes to mind is, "Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.”
Actionable Steps
As you set your goals, make sure that your goals that are so big they scare you and excite you at the same time. Here’s how to approach this:
Dream big: Think beyond your current limitations or what seems immediately achievable.
Write it down: Make your goals tangible by writing them down clearly and concisely.
Take inspired action: Align your actions with your goals every day. The universe will conspire to assist you.
Conclusion
Asking "What do I really want?" isn't just a question; it's the gateway to your greatest life. By defining this, you harness the power of the Law of Attraction, backed by your actions and beliefs, to create the reality you envision. Remember, "You are the only problem you will ever have, and you are the only solution." Take charge, dream big, and act boldly.
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